Unfortunately, I think you're headed toward heartbreak on this one. ..
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Nobody who's truly happy in a relationship is so eager to "shop around." Almost by definition, being happy means you're not shopping around. ..
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So I think you should let her go -- break up with her. Tell her that you don't feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who's way less committed to it then you are. ..
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If all goes well, she'll realize her mistake and come back to you. ..
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But of course there's a good chance she won't. ..
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I realize this advice might be easier to accept in principle than to practice. ..
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But you sound like a good guy who will be able to find a relationship with someone who feels as strongly about you as you do about her...

You deserve better & I GUARANTEE there is better out there. She is being incredibly selfish & doesn't sound very dedicated to the relationship. My advice is, get out of this while you only have a year invested rather than waiting, putting more time & energy into this & then getting your heart broken whenever she gets the "urge" to mess around with someone else. If you let her do this type of stuff, she's gonna walk all over you & that's not a sign of a healthy relationship..
Also, keep this in mind.... STDs, AIDS etc are on the rise.... do you want to risk getting something from her because she is "flirting"/having sex with anyone she encounters? Not a great idea in my opinion. Some of these diseases are FOREVER & can/will be deadly. At least give it some thought. ..
Good luck..

olahdude23..

She obviously has huge intimacy fears. You guys should be talking about ALL of your feelings by one year. if shes telling you that she wants to flirt with other guys, then she is just too scared of committing her self to you...