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It depends on your level of bondage...
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The whips and gags are not much of a turn on for me, but I definitely like the occasional handcuffs as well as dominate/submissive roles...
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I think the role of domination and submission in a relationship definitely has benefits. I believe there are just basic animistic qualities that humans have that let us naturally fit into this roles. Therefore if you act opon them while having sex, it not only pleases you but also your sub-conscience (if you want to call it that)...

I'm the yang to Angie's yin....
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Light bondage has the potential to be fun and exciting for a lot of people. The ability to completely put yourself at someone else's mercy or completely dominate other seems to be a complete turn on for some people, but it's very important to understand that it requires a lot of trust between the people involved. ..
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Games are fun, and they have the potential to spice up things up if they have become a little routine (some of you may have trouble with the concept of sex becoming routine, lol but it happens). ..
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All this does illustrate that sex does indeed happen in the brain, and that, dear people IS the most important organ in your body. Use it wisely, use it often...
Safely...
-Carlos..

The hottest sex I have ever had was when my then boyfriend blindfolded me and slowly stripped me, tickling each new revealed body part with ice. However, that's the "hardest" I've ever gone with bondage. Whips and chains aren't my thing. Biting? Yes. Blindfolds - YES. I've never been handcuffed or tied up, but in my mind, that doesn't sound like the most appealing thing...

I think some of the light stuff is hot -- like being tied up, or blindfolded...But the more hardcore stuff, like with locks and things, isn't really for me....