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My boyf is moving out because of trust issues. He goes out to clubs dancing and I don't know who he's dancing with but I don't want to go myself because I'm not into clubs, or even going out much in general. I think it'll be the same though, we'll still have sex all the time but not be living together. My friend said don't put out but i can't help it. Should I still think of him as my bofyriend?..
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from pippx (20-somethingfemale)
To me, a boyfriend isn't just a boy toy you have sex with. He should be supportive,..intuitive to who you are, and there when you need him. If you're only grounds of relationship are the fact that you'll be "having sex all the time", then he's gone from boyfriend to f*ck buddy...
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from shakira21 (20-somethingfemale)
Who's got the trust issues? You don't trust him because he goes out dancing? If you don't go out much why should you expect him to stay at home with you seven nights a week?..Do you not think he should be entitled to do some of the stuff he likes too. Sounds like you both need to compromise, or else your relationship is not going to work. Is he moving out because you asked him to, or because he thinks you don't trust him? How do you now he's not just going out dancing the night away and telling every girl that comes near him that he's got a lovely lady back home? No doubt the girls are persistent, wondering where the heck you are? Talk to him, try work it out, you go out with him sometimes, and he stay in with you other times. If you're not willing to compromise, forget the relationship, but if you just want sex, well that's for you and him to decide...
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from JackOfHearts (20-somethingmale)
great answer from pippx. ..
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If you consider a "boyfriend" someone with whom you have a committed relationship, then you shouldn't think of him that way -- and to make yourself happier you should try to have a real relationship with someone who likes spending time the way you do...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
No, I think once he moves out you're pretty much telling him he can go home with whomever he wants. ..
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If you don't trust him, then there is a major problem in your relationship. Of course, it's okay to not be committed and exclusive...
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from beachgirl (20-somethingfemale)
Whenever you take a step back in a relationship, it's never a good thing...Like, if you go from being exclusive to not, living together to not.. it means your relationship is regressing...
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Although I don't think that him moving out means you guys should necessarily break up, I do think the fact that you can't trust him means you should...Why would you want to be with someone who goes out dancing with random girls and leaves you at home?..The fact that you don't like clubs, or else you'd be out checking up on him isn't a good sign.....
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I say cut your losses, and move on to someone trustworthy who deserves you...
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