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I think I really screwed up. Can anyone help me?..
..Here's my situation: I met a guy on line and we started exchanging emails (flirty, funny, but also some substance, we were really getting to know each other). We emailed for a couple of weeks, then we talked on the phone a few times and started to make plans to meet. We had a great first date (a couple of drinks at a bar, very casual and quick) and then a good second date too (dinner first, then went to a cool wine bar and listened to some jazz). At the end of the first date we kissed/made out for a while, at the end of the second we went back to his place and had sex. I spent the night. Everything seemed fine, he called me that night, we chatted, he emailed me the next day, etc. A few days later, I was out with some girlfriends and had some drinks. When I got back home, I called the guy and, well, I guess it was a booty call. I was pretty buzzed, and I asked him to come over, and he did, and we had sex again. Since then (four days ago), nothing. No phone calls, no emails, no nothing. I called him once and he hasn't returned the call. I'm getting nervous that I turned him off, but I don't understand why -- we'd had sex already when I made the booty call, and he also took me up on it! Isn't it kind of weird and rude for him to drop me so suddenly? Or? Is there anything I can do to repair the situation? I really like this guy, and I've invested a lot of time and energy into getting to know him. Hate to think I ruined it with one ill-advised night...
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