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well i met this guy,he was great,we even talked about getting married in december.he got stationed inthe states so he left and i had to meet up with him. when he got tothe states he totally changed he didnt pickup my calls and wen he did he had some excuse toget off the phone. i didnt think it was a problem.so i let it go.we had a fight about how he disrespected and ignored me.then after that he didnt pickup my calls for a week even after hearing i lost somebody very important to me he showed no remorse wat so ever. i asked him what was going on and he told me he is stressed out from his new station. then all of a suden he didnt pickup or even replied any of my messages. the last time he did he asked me to call him, i did and he told me he didnt want tobe with me anymore.i cudn believe it. i asked him why and he told me he dosent feel the same way anymore. i dnt know what i did wrong, i tried tobe the best gf i cud.i just dont understand why he will hurt me that much. he said he wants us tobe just friends and he still loves me.wtf. its so confusing...
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from anonymous
I can imagine how painful this situation is for you! However, it seems this guy is not ready to settle down. If I were you, I would try and move on as best you can. But keep in mind you have done absolutely nothing wrong! He's the one who's all messed up. Not you. However, you deserve a lot more than this guy can obviously give...
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from Antoniux (40-somethingmale)
It could have very well be that you did something wrong without bad intention. For example being all too good for him and call him and just going after him and he got tired of you because you were not a challenge to him anymore but maybe more like a chore...Stop going after him, if he comes back do not be readily available and falling all over yourself to go back to him. Show him you are dignified person who will respect herself and will not after a guy who is not appreciative. If you continue in your life falling for guys and doing all the romancing for them, you are going to continue to be dissapointed...
Respectfully yours,..
AC..
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