This is a very normal reaction to being hurt...It is easier to be angry than it is to be hurt, so you turn your hurt into anger in the form of revenge fantasies. You're not a rotten, horrible person, you're human...I wouldn't recommend going through with any revenges, as it won't make you feel any better. Yes, you'll have the few moments of glory, but then you'll go back to being hurt...You've only been broken up for a month, so the wounds are still fresh...As cliche as it sounds, you really just need time to heal yourself...Continue living your life, enjoy it, and realize that things will work out as they are supposed to. The desire to put sugar in his gas tank will go away (at least partly) soon enough :)..

Yes, that's totally normal! And no, you are NOT rotten! It's a normal stage of the breakup/grieving process, I think. The important things to remember in this situation are A) you're above that; you don't need to stoop to such a petty level, and B) karma's a bitch. If you sit back and wait (and trust that you might not necessarily know about it) rest assured that they will get their payback in some form or another, sooner or later. That's always a comforting thought when I've been going through major breakups. Hope that helps!..

If I had a penny for every plot of revenge I've had against an ex then I would be a millionaire!! I don't think its something you should feel guilty about, everyone does it. Sure its not nice but I have a big feeling that he has a lot to do with the reason you are feeling this way. To me it seems like we want revenge on people because we want them to hurt as much as we do. In my experience it seems like women often think that men don't really care and you want to make him care. But im sure men care more then we think they do but just don't show it as well. Personally i think just ignoring him might eat him up inside, not to give you any ideas! haha..