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Me and my boyfriend recently broke up and he was very vague about why...One week later he began dating a new girl...A week after, he began texting me about how much he misses and loves me...I am so confused! What do you think this means?..Should I try to go back to him?..
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from Angie (40-somethingfemale)
It means he thought the grass was greener on the other side ... but apparently it's not as green as he had hoped ... so he's figuring he'll go back to familiar pastures ... until the next time.....
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Why not take this opportunity to do the same...I'm sure you can find some other guy, any other guy, cuz you already know this guy's game...He's with a new girl one week later ... do you really think that the week before THAT he didn't know he was looking to bolt?......
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Think about the week before you broke up, he went out with you, he kissed you, slept with you, talked with you,..did you have any indication that he already had his sights on this new chick.....
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As we all know, rarely do things develop instantaneously, he had to have been laying the groundwork for this new girl while he was with you.....
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Look he's with the new girl and he's texting you, so u think that while he was with you he wasn't texting her?..
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I'd say you deserve better ... ..
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Angie..
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from anonymous
Sounds like he thought the grass was greener on the other side, found out it was crab grass, and is trying desperately to jump back over the fence...If someone tried to do that to my little sister, I'd probably discourage his efforts in some aggressive fashion...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Well, a lot of people don't realize how much they want to be with someone until they are gone. The guys who have been the most passionate telling me they loved me, have, sadly, all been after we've broken up...
He broke up with you because he wanted to go out with this other girl. He did. Apparently it wasn't fireworks, or she didn't return his calls after the date. Or, he genuinely realized that you're the better choice...
But, I'd leave him be. (Unless you really really want to get back with him.) I think I might want a for real discussion about what the heck happened and why he left and now wants to come home. Because if you take him back, without giving you a solid reason for what happened, you might wonder if it will happen again...
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from kathyartist2008 (40-somethingfemale)
Listen to HugnKiss and Angie. This guy is bad news. Any guy who is loving you more after breaking up is never going to be someone worth having a relationship with. As Angie said, he was laying the groundwork for this other girl while being with you and stringing you along. Don't go back to him. Find someone who wants to be with you and doesn't play games behind your back...
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from Rachez18 (20-somethingfemale)
Its so hard to get over someone when you are the one being dumped. I think that is why they call it "dumped" because the one being dumped isn't ready to be done with that person. But there was something that made him feel like he was ready for it to be over, so whats different now. I bet things went South with that other girl and now he's feeling lonely. I've been in your position before and I can say that choosing not to go back was the best thing for me. See where life takes you without him, you never know it could be amazing. He doesn't deserve a second chance after leaving you high and dry no matter how many excuses he gives. If he really cared for you he would have never left in the first place...
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