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Dating > from chaos (20-somethingfemale)1 answer

so my bf is going crazy, i spent a wk with him lastweek and he changed. he went from smoking cigerrettes to smoking some sort of well.. fake weed so he calls it. then drinking and taking pills.i love him very much and im scared for him.he is alwayz broke and asking me for money, he uses all his money to suport his crazy habits,we ve been thro alot together and he promised he was going to quit but im not sure. he gets all ill tempered about stupid things.i dnt know if to tell his mum or leave him i ve tried my best .I need an opinion on this please..

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It seems to me that your boyfriend is on a downhill trajectory and my fear is that you are going to be pulled down too if you stay with him. I understand that you love him and want to help him but it does not seem like he's willing to help himself. It's not as if he's telling you that he's seeking counseling or going into rehab. You need to do what is best for yourself and that seems you might want to walk away from this situation and find yourself in a happier and healthier state. You deserve more than what this situation offers you and it looks like things will likely go from bad to worse. As for telling his mother, if you think she can help him get help then maybe it's a good idea. But not if it's going to put you in an even more complicated situation...

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