Here's that question

I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....
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I clicked "other" only because I want what I give, I want what we all deserve ... I want it all, I want the package ... correction ... I need it.......
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I don't want:..
- him to be funny all the time, but I need him to be able to laugh and make me laugh..
- him to be passionate about everything, but I need him to be passionate about something...
- him to be kind and considerate, but I need to KNOW THAT HE IS..
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Being with the right person (or people) guarantees 90% of one's happiness. ..
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So what's the one trait I seek?..Would have to be the ability to touch my mind, body and soul in a way like no other ... ya ... that's what he does :-)..
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Angie..

Honesty. ..
Humor, but I need him to understand my sense of humor because I am a very sarcasticn girl and I hate when people don't get it...I once dated a guyt that did not understand it in the least bit...

I'm the yang to Angie's yin......
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Reciprocity.....
.. 1...A reciprocal condition or relationship...
.. 2. A mutual or cooperative interchange of favors or privileges, especially the exchange of rights or privileges of trade between nations...
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Basically I'm looking for someone who is going to put as much into this relationship as I am, and maybe push me for a little more, not too much baggage along for the ride tho (lol, I'm sure this will illicit a new question)..
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I think I've found her...
C...
C...

What, no option for "All of the Above"?..
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I'm leaning toward "sense of humor" but of course I need more than that. Kind and compassionate is also very important -- that's something I did not have in my last (and abusive) LTR, but that I do have now. Never realized how much I needed it until I had it, which is better than the other way around, I suppose. But that can also be cloying without a sense of humor to temper it. I've also been in relationshps that were sort of the opposite of abusive -- wherein the person loved me so much that the love was suffocating. ..
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All righty, I think I've written my way to an answer: a sense of balance is the most important mate-trait. I look for someone who can make me laugh, cry with me over the good things and the bad, and appreciate all of my complexities without stifling me or feeling threatened...

Honesty..