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I've been with my girlfriend for two years, and for that whole time, she's been in therapy to deal with some problems she's having...Anxiety, depression, etc...At first, it wasn't a big deal...But things have progressed, she's going to more and more therapy, and I just found out that her psychiatrist wants to put her on an anti-psychotic drug...I won't say what it is, but it's very strong...I don't know if I should call it quits with her, or try to stick it out...I don't see her getting any better.. Do you know anyone who has come back from something like this?..Or is this always going to be a problem?..
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
I understand--this is a very painful situation to be in, watching someone you love struggle with mental problems. I have this in my family and the person who is supposed to be on the anti-psychotics doesn't always think she needs them and so doesn't always take them, and so continues to have her issues in varying degrees. There was a time when she seemed to have vastly improved, so bouncing back can occur...but then that ball can continue to bounce, if you see what I mean. I don't know much about mental illness other than what I've seen personally, so maybe this is something you should research further, see what others' experiences have been...
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from JackOfHearts (20-somethingmale)
this is an extremely tough situation, but unlike some people who have responded here, I don't think you are obligated to "stick it out" with her. ..
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that said, you are obligated to be as supportive as possible, and to limit the amount you hurt someone who's already in a fragile state. ..
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if you can't speak to her shrink (as Carlos suggests) there are probably mental-health hotlines or support groups that can help you find the least-destructive way to deal with this. ..
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you should also get some professional advice about whether or not "this is always going to be a problem"...I'd talk to a mental health pro about what's likely to happen with your girlfriend's condition. ..
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good luck with everything...
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from witchchic (20-somethingfemale)
meds can make a big diff. if she's put on meds give her awhile to adjust to them and then see how she is. when i was put on meds my personality and attitude changed it was like day and night and my bf can tell if i accidently missed a dose...
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