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How long do you guys think you should wait before having sex with a person you're dating?..
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7%First date, baby!
15%Second date
11%Third date
67%Fourth date or later
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female . . .74%
male .25% .50%
="First date, baby!"
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
I'm the yang to Angie's yin.....
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Once again at the risk of upsetting the brotherhood, I'm going to confide in you beachgirl. ..
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Guys who nail a girl on a first date usually think less of that girl than the same girl who waited. If you just want a roll in the hay, then be all means indulge you inner maneater, (play safe, tho). If you are looking for a long term relationship based on love and respect , I'd suggest you wait. My own thinking is 5th or 6th date isn't too much to ask...
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-Carlos..
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Whenever it feels right to you. There are no hard and fast rules. Sometimes by the third date, you have no desire to take your clothes off, sometimes you can't keep them on. Cynthia Heimel writes in her book sex tips for girls -- that you should never sleep with a guy on the first date... unless you really, really want to...
I made one boyfriend wait 3 months to sleep with him. Another guy I slept with at a conference. Just do what feels right to you...
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from discospark (30-somethingfemale)
I think it depends on the people, sometimes it just feels right to have sex on the first date other times it's better to wait. I don't think it's a bad thing to have sex on the first date, it's not like you do it all the time. Unfortunately I think alot of guys think that you probably do, so they probably get that impression. I've had three serious relationships and I've slept with all three guys on the first date and it didn't harm our relationship one bit....
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