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Sure, as long as they're not looking for dates there, or avoiding or deceiving their partner by going to strip clubs. If they say they're at church while they're really at Diamond Dolls, there's a deeper problem that needs to be addressed. ..
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As an occasional night out or fun thing to do, though, I think it's perfectly fine...

I'm here to offer a woman's perspective (a woman who sometimes has just enough testosterone floatin' around in her to balance things out ;-)) .....
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Yes and No ... Here's what I think about what's "appropriate" in a Long Term Relationship ... if the two people in the LTR are good with "whatever" it is ...then it's ok...
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A guy I worked with once told me that ... in his wife's eyes ... going to strip clubs was cheating ... he said I don't agree but I love her and I know where her line is...Of course when I saw pictures of them travelling thru Tuscany I could see why he wouldn't put up a fight ... she could have run circles around any pole ;-)....
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Good LTR's survive and thrive, in part because of the way they communicate ... so knowing their partner's stance on things helps guide them thru their difference of opinions...
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Angie..

I'm here offering a guy's perspective...
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I don't see anything wrong with guys going to strip clubs unless it becomes a regular thing and/or they start trying to hookup with the dancers. An occasional night out..with the guys is healthy and should be encouraged (if he's going alone that's another issue completely)...
-Carlos..

There's a pretty massive gray area...My cousin dragged me to a gross townie strip club once while I was going out with my ex...It was more hilarious than arousing; just because of all the white trash prancing around.....
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I wouldn't worry too much about it...Strippers normally taste/smell like sweat, desperation, and meth...Not much competition for you, I would hope...

Yea, I do not see it as a problem at all...I mean, if my boyfriend/husband were to go and get head or have sex with the stripper, I would be substantially pissed, but otherwise it is not an issue...To me seeing naked chicks in person is kind of like seeing naked chicks in a movie. As long as you are not touching, it is not a problem at all...