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Not cheating but a bit dense if you think your significant other wouldn't be upset by it...What if your boyfriend did an equivalent while you weren't there?..

no, of course not. cheating has much more to do with the emotional state of mind of the cheater. flashing your tits is a really simple, stupid, non-emotional thing --..more akin to sticking out your tongue, if you ask me. after all, breasts are not inherently sexual objects. they are there to feed and nurture children, not to get people off (although that's of course a side effect!). even guys flashing their penis, like the typical flasher/streaker in a beige raincoat, is not about sex. it's more about power, having the power to shock (or titillate) others with your naked body. ..
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i suppose if a woman went around flashing her tits at everybody, constantly, that might indicate greater problems in her relationship that might be as serious as cheating, or that might -- MIGHT -- be a sign that she is thinking about cheating or that her heart's not in the relationship. but just flashing someone once as cheating? Hell no...

I'm the yang to Angie's yin.....
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Not even close to cheating for me. Would walking around naked or topless on a beach be considered cheating? I think some people have to get over the whole detached physical aspect of mating. I girl walking down the beach topless is NOT by default inviting advances, neither is the girl in the cute miniskirt at the bar...
-Carlos..

Well, it's probably not cheating, per se, but that doesn't mean that it's appropriate...For some couples, it wouldn't be a big deal...Other people might have a really big problem with it...
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I think it depends on the relationship the girl is in, and what her boyfriend thinks about her doing something like that...If he has a big problem with it, then even though it maybe isn't technically cheating, she still shouldn't be doing it...There are a lot of borderline behaviors that both people in the relationship need to figure out if they're okay with ....and if possible, it should be done before they come up, so that there's no confusion...

I'm the yin to Carlos' yang .....
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No it's not cheating and I'm glad to hear Carlos' response ... Pheww ... don't scare me like that BM9913 ... cuz altho I've never cheated on anyone I HAVE gone topless lol...Angie..