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from anonymous2 answersHelp! The only position my boyfrend can get off on is doggy-style, which I hate....show more
i mean, i don't hate it, it's OK, every once in a while, but I get really tired and my knees start to hurt since we have to do it every single time like that. What can we do? Is there any way he can "train" himself to cum when he's doing it in a different position?..
from anonymous4 answersMy husband and I have been having unprotected sex for about a year and a half;...show more
we aren't actively trying to get pregnant and he pulls out and it's usually not around the time I ovulate. I read somewhere that 85% of women that have unprotected sex get pregnant within a year...I was wondering if it's unusual that I haven't yet? We are in our early 20's and my periods are very regular...I just don't know whether I should suspect some fertility issues in the future as knowing earlier is always better...
from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)2 answersHere's a question for you: You know how they say, about sex, that "the...show more
more you get, the more you want"? Well, do you think the reverse is true? "The less you get, the less you want"? Usually that is not at all true, but lately I've been going through a bit of a, um, dry spell ;-) and for some reason my libido has totally decreased. I'm sure if I had sex I would enjoy it, but I don't have much of an urge to even try for it these days. What's up with that?..
from anonymous4 answersThese past eight months have been really hard for me. I lost my job, then a couple...show more
of months later my father died very unexpectedly of a heart attack. Because of all the stress I have gained quite a bit of weight - maybe 40 pounds or so. I'm pretty short so it's a big change and I have had to get all new clothes. I know I look fat and slobby but I just haven't had the enrgy to care, you know? anyway, my boyfriend has been growing more and more distant physically, even though he's been really supportive, adn a couple of itmes he has actually turned me down for sex. I finally asked him, kind of jokingly, "it's because I'm so fat now isn't it," expecting him to go, "Oh no honey, you look great, I love you no matter what, blah blah" but he just got really quiet and then all red in the face and said, "well yeah." Of course, I'm devastated. I don't know what to do or how to feel. Right now I am just not motivated to lose the weight yet, although I know I will be eventually, but I don't want to be with someone who finds me repulsive. I don't want to lose the weight "for him" either. I feel lke he should stick with me no matter what, but at the same time I can understand that he's just not attracted to my body anymore, so I kind of don't blame him even though I'm also really mad at him. What should I do? I don't think I can take another loss right now either...
from anonymous4 answersDo you think it's possible to build a relationship from a one-night stand?...show more
I mean, if you hook up with someone at a bar, and go home with them just thinking it's gonna be for sex, not expecting anything else? But then the next morning you start talking and realize you really do have a lot in common, and maybe you shouldn't have slept together, but just made a date instead? So what do you think, is it possible to back up a bit and actually get together with them? Or does having had sex the first time you met them ruin things?..
from anonymous3 answersI'm a 39-year old woman and in my first serious relationship in about five...show more
years. One thing I've noticed this time around is that I seem to have more, well, dryness. I need to use lube almost every time we have sex. It never used to be like this when I was younger. Is this just becaues I am getting older? I thought this didn't happen until after menopause. Could it be a symptom of another problem? Any advice?..
from anonymous2 answersHow come sometimes i can last for hours in bed, and some other times right when...show more
i start having sex i feel like i'm going to cum? Is it the methods in foreplay that might get me turned on moreso? or does longer, slower foreplay actually help?..Really confused. I love haveing sex with my girlfriend but i get worried sometimes because about 1/6 times i'll just have to take it slow or PE, when the other times i can just have at it now problem...suggestions? tips? anything?..
from anonymous1 answerGood porn for women? Is there such a thing? I don't need it to be oscar-worthy,...show more
but something that is not totally cheesy would be nice, with a bit of a plot, and not the usual "pool boy" scenario or other far-fetched thing. Anyone have any recommendations?..