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Marriage Questions
from anonymous4 answersMy husband and I have been having unprotected sex for about a year and a half;...show more
we aren't actively trying to get pregnant and he pulls out and it's usually not around the time I ovulate. I read somewhere that 85% of women that have unprotected sex get pregnant within a year...I was wondering if it's unusual that I haven't yet? We are in our early 20's and my periods are very regular...I just don't know whether I should suspect some fertility issues in the future as knowing earlier is always better...
from anonymous1 answerDo you think that the tradition of going to a strip club, or getting a stripper...show more
for a bachelor or bachelorette party, is a good one? I mean no one would condone the person who's about to get married actually sleeping with a stripper or a prostitute as one last fling. and a lot of people wouldn't like their husband going to a strip club after the wedding. so why do we still do this?..
from anonymous3 answersI think my wife is depressed. She never wants to have sex anymore, and seems...show more
uninterested in intimacy of any kind (snuggling, kissing, even hugs). She's always down and moping. What can I do to help her? We really cant afford counseling right now (no insurance)....
from anonymous4 answersI'm having a hard time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years.
When...show more
we were together for 6 months, we almost broke up because he said he wasn't feeling in love with me and wasn't feeling fireworks. We took some time away from each other and after 3 weeks, he realized he did want to be with me. 4 months later said he was in love with me. He's been wonderful since. But lately, his adult daughter asked about that time and I told her. And ever since, I've been feeling sad and awful reliving that horrible time. I can't get it out of my head. What is wrong?..
from anonymous3 answersMe and my boyfriend just got engaged. He asked me at the end of the summer and...show more
we're making plans to get married next spring. But ever since I said yes it seems like things are different between us. He's just not the fun, loving guy he used to be. I have this weird feeling that he doesn't want to get married but can't back out now. What do I do?..
from runningweasel (20-somethingfemale)3 answersOkay, I'm going to call this guy my stepfather, simply because it's...show more
an easier title. No, he and my mom aren't technically married, but he lives with us. I have a sort of love/hate relationship with him because we have the same sense of humour, and yet he's so arrogant and self righteous that it really drives me mad. Anyway.....What he did with his daughter is, (she's in her 30s with a family now) whenever she would bring..guy home to meet him, he would tell her (not in front of the guy, obviously) that he's not good enough/ he's not the one she'd marry. She would get angry, yell at him, telling him he was wrong, and then, as it turned out, he was right. Call me what you will, but, I think that's psycho-manipulative. If a kid is told this by their parents, they might outwardly rebel, but really, they take it to heart and it can sabotage the relationship. Now, this might not be the case with her, but it's a valid argument, isn't it?..Well, he's started doing it to me. Given, he never said anything about my ex until after we broke up, but now he's telling me things like "Oh, you say you love him now, but in 6 months you'll have a new guy." The thing is -- my boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged next year, and married the next. (We've allotted this amount of time to make sure things work before we make any drastic moves. Plus, by then we'll be 21+ (he's less than a year older than I am) and in a place where we can be more sure-footed about a commitment like this. I know I'm bound to make mistakes, and that's why we're trying to be smart about this...I suppose my question is -- how can I keep him from "getting to me"? I want to make it clear that I'm not rebelling -- I'm not yelling at him and saying "You're wrong! We're IN LOVE *whine whine*" Usually, I'll just shrug and say "Okay, but I'll let my love life play out for itself and not according to you."..What should/shouldn't I do?..
..I should also mention that he was married at 19. Do with that information what you will...
from nzaads (20-somethingfemale)5 answersI've been dating this amazing guy for 2 months. We've been seeing each...show more
other practically everyday and just really enjoying each other's company...He asked me to be his gf and told me he loves me practically 2-3 weeks after we met. Since then, I've met his parents and he's met mine...He seems to be very serious and every now and then he'll bring up marriage or he'll talk of our future together...We're seniors in college so the "what's next?" conversation is inevitable. Any plans he ever mentions always involve me...He's used the word wife a couple of times...It feels great but how seriously can I take what he says? Thus far, he has given me absolutely no reason to doubt him (no unanswered phone calls, strange/secretive behavior). Any advice? Thank you =)..Vote:
from anonymous4 answersAaarghhh!!! My husband and I are both sick with the flu or a cold, and for a...show more
week or so now we've been dragging around the house. He usually works outside the home but he's been staying home to recover. I am a housewife (we have two kids too), but of course if I stopped working everything would grind to a halt...we wouldn't eat dinner, the dishes wouldn't get washed, we would have no clean clothes to wear, the kids would not get to school, ect. But it is so unfair...we are both equally sick and yet he gets to lie around watching game shows and surfing the net on his laptop while it's business as usual for me. is it wrong of me to be so resentful? or do i just have to suck it up and power through?..
