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Dumped Questions
from MIssa (20-somethingfemale)5 answersI had been seeing this guy for a few month's. It seemed like things were...show more
going really well...In the beginning he would call me or we would talk online for literally like 4-5 hours at a time, we had so much in common, and conversation just flowed...Towards the end, he started being a lot more distant, and we wouldn't talk as much but we still had a great chemistry...Anyways, about 3 weeks ago, i went to visit him and he told me things fell through with his family and he was no longer moving out to live over towards me...He said he didn't want to do the long-distance thing because his last relationship that was long distance he was cheated on...I told him i understood and we ended on a good note it seemed, and we said we would be friends...He lives an hour away, and we havent really talked since, but lately i have really missed him, and wish that i would have said to him how much i actually cared about him the night we broke things off...I really care about him, but feel it's too soon to try to talk with him just as friends since my feelings are so strong, but yet i still don't feel like i have that closure...Has anyone felt this way before? What is your advice on the best thing to do?..
from javajunkie37 (20-somethingfemale)7 answersHey everyone. So I told you all about the guy that wouldn't give up. Well...show more
the night before last he decided to see just how much I really cared about him, by having people call me and text me that he had killed himself over me. I didn't know what to do so I called the sheriff and gave them his address and the numbers of the people involved. They got in a lot of trouble, and none of them have bothered me since. But for some reason now I feel super guilty like I shouldn't have that. Was I in the wrong?..
from Angie (40-somethingfemale)4 answersSparked by another question about finding out ur partner is cheating on you thru...show more
reading an email or text ... it got me thinking ... We all know how it's an invasion of privacy to read emails and the like, but it seems that so many people do it...Knowing that there's a remote possibility that ur partner might read it, either mistakenly or intentionally ... why would someone be so freakin' stupid as to incriminate themselves in an email like that?..In some small way is it their way of sabotoging the relationship?..Are they, down deep, hoping to be caught?..
from pienthuiast (20-somethingfemale)4 answersI'm kissing this boy who doesn't seem as keen as I am. He's the...show more
nicest person, but conversation has been a little dead recently. Last weekend, being fed-up with the situation, I asked him was I just wasting my time, and he was shocked and explained his lack of communication, (he had a few hospital appointments, nothing serious), and it all went back to normal for a while. I've invited him to my grad ball next week, but he didn't invite me to his, he brought a friend instead, (we went to single-sex schools). I don't know whether to dump him now, before the grad, or hang on. The week after I'm off to college, and I'll only be home for the weekends. I really like him, and we have FANTASTIC chemistry, but is it all just too much effort than it's worth?..
from anonymous5 answersMe and my boyfriend recently broke up and he was very vague about why. One week...show more
later he began dating a new girl...A week after, he began texting me about how much he misses and loves me...I am so confused! What do you think this means?..Should I try to go back to him?..Vote:
from anonymous4 answersI think my boyfriend is about to dump me. we've only been going out a couple...show more
of months but things have really cooled off between us in the past week or so. I am not so heartbroken about losing him, but I'm really scared that I am going to be embarrassed and hurt that he's broken things off. I am thinking about breaking up with him before he can leave me - a preemptive strike, I guess you'd call it. Any reason why I shouldn't ? I just feel panicked at the thought of being broken up with (previously I have done all the breaking up in my relationships)..
