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from anonymous5 answers
hi...new here...and hoping that someone is in the same boat i am or can give...show more
me some advice. I am newly single and really depressed. the fact that the holidays are coming up is only making things worse. i don't feel like going out, but when i stay in and watch tv all i see are the romantic ads for jewelry and movies about families coming together for the hlidays...so that just makes me feel like i'm a loser for having been dumped. my boyfriend and i were together for 3 years and now we're not...and i don't know how to deal. i just don't even feel like getting out of bed in the morning, let alone doing christmas shopping or going to parties or any of that. so...i don't even really know what my question is, excpet any advice for how to deal with being single and hating it during the holiday? Any thing I can do to cheer myself up, other than eat too much and drink too much, which I am already doing and which is not really working so well? thanks for reading...thanks for letting me vent.....
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from jorgegeorge (20-somethingmale)5 answers
Is it alright to take back a dump? I just dumped my girlfriend yesterday, we...show more
had been dating almost a year in high school, and again for a little over a year in college. She took it really badly and I'm having lots of second thoughts as to whether or not this is something I actually want. I don't think I actually thought everything through, now I just feel wrong. Any advice?..
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from enigmaticlove (20-somethingmale)3 answers
At the end of this summer, I began seeing my friend from college's ex-girlfriend,...show more
without his knowledge...We hung out and became intimate for most of August, and when I went back to school we tried to keep it together although still under wraps...I visited her one time since then, where she told me that she still really cares about me but doesn't want to do this anymore since we really can't be together because of my friend and that she would rather explore her options in college for the time being...I understood completely even though I was pretty bummed out...A month goes by and she now has a new boyfriend from school, but she still claims to really care about me...My friend still does not know that her and I talk...
..I know I am in the wrong for not telling my friend about this, but I don't want to lose his friendship, and I also don't want to lose her as a possibility in the future...I was willing, when we were "together," to tell my friend of my relations with her, but she didn't want me to and wanted me to wait for the right time...Now that she has a boyfriend, I feel very relieved I didn't reveal my secret to him, so I kind of feel like I can use this as an opportunity to rid myself of the situation I got myself in to, by not talking to her, but at the same time I still really care about her and it is a lot easier to say I want to do that than to actually go through with it...
..Her boyfriend lives far away from home, and I know she will want to see me during the summer and probably become close with me again...I really don't know what to do...Any suggestions would be great for those that took the time to read all of this, haha...Thanks guys...
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from eneer (50+female)2 answers
My boyfriend dumped me 1 yr ago. We were together 2-1/2 yrs. Everything seemed...show more
perfect. I finally after 40+ yrs let my walls down and trusted someone. I believed finally in my heart that he was the one. We had chemistry and a connection. Neither one of us had been married before and we both had no children. One yr before he broke it off he suggested the next step of living together but he was not ready just yet. He said he had never gotten that far in a relationship to ever even discuss this with anyone. One yr later he broke it up telling me he knew I was ready for the next step and he was not and didn't know if he ever would be with anyone. He said he didn't want to drag me along and that was it! Now he is dating someone that is not yet divorced. They spend alot of time together and even go to church together. Sleeping together and she is not divorced sitting in church together (hipacrits). Also she has 2 children and husband that wants to reconcile... ..My ex boyfriend..didn't start dating right away because he had an operation and had to recover. Why wouldn't..he just date for a while instead of hooking up with someone with so much baggage...For someone that was afraid to commit that just doesn't make sense to me. I don't even exist to him anymore. I found myself out of character. I have cryed everyday for a yr and not five minutes have gone by without me thinking about him. I have never done this before. It consumes my life and I pray for him to come back. I am ususally a stronger person than this. Does anyone understand what is going on here? Please help...
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from lonelywhisper (20-somethingfemale)5 answers
Ever since I started dating my boyfriend over a year ago, my 2 best friends in...show more
the area have completely blown me off. I've tried planning girls weekends, weekends for them to come hang out and get to know my boyfriend, weekends for the 3 of us and our 3 boyfriends to hang out and I either don't get a response or get one last second that says "no."..I still try to call them, but it's trailed off, admittedly, because I never get anywhere. I really miss them and don't know what to do. They've each recently sent me really mean emails telling me that it's all my fault we don't talk and twisting all of the invites and caring things i've tried to do into these horrible attacks on them or ways of showing how little i care about them. ..
..I have admittedly, been really busy -- i was gone every weekend over the summer and have now taken on classes on top of full time work, an internship, a boyfriend, etc.That certainly affected how much I've been around, but everytime I am free they are the first people I contact to try to hang out or make plans. ..
..What do I do? How do I respond to these attack emails I've gotten?..
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from Failseverything (20-somethingmale)3 answers
Ive kinda got crushed a girl like 2 weeks ago who is a very close friend of someone...show more
i just know randomly.Anyway i smsed him once than we had a thunderstorming series of smsings for like 1 week or whatsoever.But i was more than clear about my intentions to her and seriously i am one hundred percent sure about i have done no mistakes or nothing about explaining myself introducing myself......She was more than willing to keep the connection between us after the first few days.After i spoke with her friend who have introduced us to eachother I have learned that she had a half cut relation she still has in her mind and it would be pointless for us to go beyond because there would be no point.After learning that I decided to remove her from my mind/life for greater good of myself so i wouldnt be upset at the end but at the night i decided that she kept smsing me.That night i didnt answer but the next day after getting some advice i couldnt resist smsing her back and after all the times i asked her to go out and she didnt want this time she has asked me to go out.I accepted willingly and we had a great day sitting somewhere nice knowing eachother better.She than came my office to know my friends at the same day and she was speaking like '' i am feeling myself like a new bride who came to home'' or stuff like this.She was totally up for the relation i have supposed so we have go on 1 more week like this with hundreds of sms' and msn conversations.This week we have gone out another time to have another day which has gone perfectly till end.At the end she has told me some stuff about a dream she had and about her boyfriend.I played understanding non envying boy role as good as i could than she started asking me questions bout my ex relations and so on after we spoke a little she asked me if i still feel anything for anyone but i told her strictly that i only have ''that kind of intentions '' towards her.Than at that second She started that she doesnt want to hurt my feelings blabla kind of stuff and want to stay as friends with me.Tho as i was really honest i told her i dont have another space in my life for another friends and for this reason we couldnt end up as friends.She told me if i want to remove her from my life but i answered something like as long as u dont remove urself i wont have any special efforts to remove you from my life kind of stuff.She was willing to put me a title like friend tho i told her we were more of a date kind which she didnt agree and so on.Anyway i am ofcourse a bit disappointed and honestly i ofcourse care.Tho its not like end of world for me life still goes on perfectly well from my side.Tho i am curious of what to do if she wants to keep in touch..
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0%Always reject any going outs and answer short and clear smses
0%put her to the bench resting dates.if she keeps speaking answer like always
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from anonymous4 answers
i am having a really hard time getting over a breakup that happened a while ago...show more
(about six months). I just can't wrap my head around the idea that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I mean, I really thought we were perfect together. And -don't laugh- but I just have this feeling that we're not through. is that crazy? Should I pursue him or forget about him?..Vote:
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from anonymous5 answers
My GF broke up with me last week, but ever since then she has been really, er,...show more
clingy. It's like she can't let go even though she broke up w/me She calls me, sends me crap on Facebook, texts me, etc. She came over to drop off some stuff of mine she had at her apt and she invited herself in and lingered and made excuses to stay and hang out. I was like, WTF, we're broken up? Why are you here? I don't know if she regrets breaking up or if she feels sorry for me or if she is confused or what. Can you guys give me some advice? I don't know what to do. I don't really care if we are together or not but I'd like to know one way or the other...
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from racek125 (20-somethingfemale)4 answers
I will try not to leave out any details. So my boyfriend and i broke up right...show more
before i left for college, he is a senior in high school. Anyway we still talked and where friends, but i still loved him. so i recently told him that i cant be friends until i am over him. So then i deleted my myspace, and yesterday he got a facebook and added me on it. so i am so confused. also a few times he has asked if i havea new boyfriend, has asked me to hang out, and once when we did we went to panera bread and he payed for it. so i am so confused and idk if he still likes me or if i should just ignore him until i come home for break and see what happens then?..Vote:
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from anonymous6 answers
Long story, but I'll try to keep it short. My boyfriend of one year broke...show more
up with me three months ago. At the time he said he had some stuff to work out and although he loved me, he couldn't be with me. Blah blah. We've kind of kept in touch and we have lots of mutual friends, so I know that he's dated one other person in the meantime, but only for a short while, and it didn't end very well. So the other night he called me and asked me out. I haven't gone yet (it's tomorrow) but I have the feeling that he's going to see if I want to get back together. On the one hand, I still love him and would love to give it a second chance. I think we really could have a future together. But on the other hand, I feel a little betrayed b/c he said he still loved me, it wasn't me, he had some personal stuff to work out, bu then he went and dated somebody else when we were broken up anyway. I mean, if was breaking up with me despite his love for me in order to have time to work on himself, then why did he go and see some other girl? You know? Anyway, what should I do? Should I give him another chance or tell him it's too late?..Vote:
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