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from chaos (20-somethingfemale)1 answerwell i met this guy,he was great,we even talked about getting married in december.he...show more
got stationed inthe states so he left and i had to meet up with him. when he got tothe states he totally changed he didnt pickup my calls and wen he did he had some excuse toget off the phone. i didnt think it was a problem.so i let it go.we had a fight about how he disrespected and ignored me.then after that he didnt pickup my calls for a week even after hearing i lost somebody very important to me he showed no remorse wat so ever. i asked him what was going on and he told me he is stressed out from his new station. then all of a suden he didnt pickup or even replied any of my messages. the last time he did he asked me to call him, i did and he told me he didnt want tobe with me anymore.i cudn believe it. i asked him why and he told me he dosent feel the same way anymore. i dnt know what i did wrong, i tried tobe the best gf i cud.i just dont understand why he will hurt me that much. he said he wants us tobe just friends and he still loves me.wtf. its so confusing...
from Ameritech1 (50+female)1 answerI have a question: I use to hang out with this guy who use to live down the...show more
street from me...My husband had passed away and this guy down the street got a divorce and wanted to someone to hang out with...So we started hanging out with each other for about two months..and then one day I told him that I couldn't see him anymore because I was starting to go with this other guy...He told me that it was ok and if anything happen between this guy and me to let him know.....So it's been a year now and the guy I was going with broke it off so I e-mailed the first guy which ask me to let him know if it didn't work out...He said that it was so good to hear from me and that we should go bike rideing sometime...I wrote back and told him the that week end was good for me if it was for him...He said that we would have to do the bike ride later because he was busy that week end...So I waited like two weeks and wrote back to him and said I'm sure your pretty busy but if you ever want to meet some where for some coffee or take a bike ride just let me know. We could catch up on things that has happen in our lives...If your too busy or don't want too, I understand... I always had a great time when we hung out together...He wrote back and said that He always had a good time with me also. That we should probably hold off right now. I hope we can stay in touch with each other....... I value you as a good friend....... I don't know if he is brushing me off or if he has someone else...Do I write back to him telling him that whenever his is ready then just give me a call? or just leave things alone...I'm really bad trying to read other peoples minds...Why did he say we should go bike riding sometime if you really didn't mean it...And that he really enjoyed hearing from me...Does he really want me to stay in touch with him?..And how is staying in touch with him mean?..Please help me with this situation I don't know what to do...Does he or does he not want to go out with me?..What should I do?..
from anonymous4 answers2 days ago, I told my boyfriend of 5-and-a-half months that while I was drunk...show more
and away overseas, I kissed someone else...The morning after it happened was a fuzzy but very guilty memory but, I decided not to tell my boyfriend because I knew he would be really upset and break up with me. This he did do when I became overwhelmed with guilt and told him what happened, but ever since he is constantly calling me at all hours to cry at me/hurl abuse. I told him I was really sorry, it was a drunken mistake, and that I was really ashamed of my actions, he forgave me but told me he could no longer be with me...I told him I was sad, but prepared to accept the consequences of my actions and us go our separate ways, but if he wanted to I was willing to change and start over with our relationship. I can tell he wants to stay with me but feels he can't trust me anymore, but when I ask him what he wants to do - stay together or split for good - he can't decide and begins crying again. He's obviously not in the correct mindset to make the decision that he wants (I am prepared for either, as much as I want to stay with him, if he can't do it, I can't force him and I deserve to be alone)...We really love each other and it so hurts; the worst thing is that I know it's all my fault, I really am taking the ultimate punishment by having the man I love sob his heart out down the phone to me and knowing that I caused it. He's so beside himself he's barely eaten or slept and judging by his phonecalls he is getting increasingly hysterical. He has depression and it's really not good for him...
..My question is...I am going to visit him tomorrow by his request, it's about an hour's drive (which I can't really afford but I don't care about that at the minute). I am prepared for him to look at me, say he can't bear to see me anymore and then I drive all the way back again, as he says he doesn't know how he's going to react. I guess I'm wondering what we should do, is it a good idea for me to go and see him? Is he going to be thinking straight enough to make the decision that he wants? I am not proud of what I did and have accepted I was completely in the wrong; so any comments which help the situation as it stands now would be greatly appreciated. Thank you...
from xxmustangxxe09 (teenfemale)2 answersi was with my bf 5 months. we broke up two times before this last time but we...show more
got back together within a week. He swore he loved me so much. He proposed to me and we planned out our valentines weekend out together. today (wed. 2/11) his friend wyatt told me my bf wasnt dating me or going to marry me, he got a new gf. i spoke to my bf and he said it was true. his friend wyatt is a year younger than my bf. my bf was already a year younger than me. idk what to do. wyatt is very nice and a total gentleman. but my bf was a gentleman too. idk whos real but im just sick of guys playing with my heart. idk what to do...Vote:
from anonymous3 answersDoes anyone have any advice on how to let go of someone they've lost? I...show more
am having a tough time getting over my last boyfriend, who I dated for almost two years. We've been broken up now for three months and it still feels as painful as they day he left me...I cry every single day at having lost his love. I can't imagine that I'll ever get over him and be able to date anyone else -logically I know I will, I've been hurt before and always gotten over it. But this time seems so much harder and worse. Any advice?..
from amlandutta (20-somethingmale)2 answersshe have left me before 6 months, the reason what she gave at that time was...show more
not proper, or u people can tell that there may be no reasons at all, we had a 2 and half years of relationship and she took one day to break up, we were very happy and we both have no problems but my financial status is not at all good, she is earning more money and she is much more capable of me in professional field, this could be a reason, i have tried a lot to convince her at that time but she didn't come back, then she moved to another city and i loose her contacts, before 2 months i came to know that she is going to marry some other person...everything got fixed, but i dont know why from the last month she again started call me and mail me, as i told i didn't argue with her from the first time even if when she broke up also, so the relationship was not bitter as usually happened for the other breakups,..so again we started talking with each other very normally,..and what i felt from the conversations..that she don't have any soft corner for me, but i still love her, this conversation is again started bothering me...even if she asked me to become her friend..but i told her this is not possible for me to be a only friend of her, but then also she didn't stop calling me, i have already stop calling and mailing her, yesterday i got a call from her side, i loose my temperament and just told her not to play with my life and never call me back like this....but she started crying and told me that she will never call me again, but i didn't able to understand her feelings... then she cut the call.., but i just want some suggestions from your side..that shall i call her back as i m still in love with her...or i just leave the matter as it is...i am very confused....and really don't know what to do...plz help..
from anonymous3 answersDumped during the holidays! My girlfriend just left me. She said she didn't...show more
want to go through the holiday just going through the motions. So here I am with all of these Christmas presents and plans for new Years that I can't do anymore. What do I do? I am heartbroken at being dumped to begin with, and it just seems like adding insult to injury that she couldn't even wait a few more days or a week? Any advice? this SUCKS...
from anonymous3 answersis it normal to want revenge on your ex? My boyfriend broke up with me about...show more
a month ago and even though I still love him and would probably take him back in a heartbeat if he asked, I am consumed by these awful fantasies of getting revenge on him or getting back at him in some way. I just really feel a need to punish him somehow. I'm probably not going to do any of these things, but I sure want to. Am I really a rotten person at heart? Will this feeling pass?..
