Dating Questions
from anonymous4 answers
OK so I've decided to take the plunge.....get into internet dating....so...show more
a couple of questions! 1. What is the best site? Pros, cons of different sites? 2. Are there any do's or don'ts? Any tips or really great advice? THANK YOU!!!..
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from anonymous6 answers
I'd like some advice about my boyfriend and my's relationship. He's...show more
a really great guy and I love him to bits but we have some problems in bed...He finds it really difficult to talk to me and so I can't ever ask him what I want or know what he wants...He's also not the best lover I have ever had and I have cheated on him once although he forgave me...I would like an open relationship because we are both at different universities but I think he would hate the idea...
..He's like my best friend and I would hate to lose that but I'm so sexually frustrated and need more affection tha..I;m getting from him, what do I do?..
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from enigmaticlove (20-somethingmale)3 answers
At the end of this summer, I began seeing my friend from college's ex-girlfriend,...show more
without his knowledge...We hung out and became intimate for most of August, and when I went back to school we tried to keep it together although still under wraps...I visited her one time since then, where she told me that she still really cares about me but doesn't want to do this anymore since we really can't be together because of my friend and that she would rather explore her options in college for the time being...I understood completely even though I was pretty bummed out...A month goes by and she now has a new boyfriend from school, but she still claims to really care about me...My friend still does not know that her and I talk...
..I know I am in the wrong for not telling my friend about this, but I don't want to lose his friendship, and I also don't want to lose her as a possibility in the future...I was willing, when we were "together," to tell my friend of my relations with her, but she didn't want me to and wanted me to wait for the right time...Now that she has a boyfriend, I feel very relieved I didn't reveal my secret to him, so I kind of feel like I can use this as an opportunity to rid myself of the situation I got myself in to, by not talking to her, but at the same time I still really care about her and it is a lot easier to say I want to do that than to actually go through with it...
..Her boyfriend lives far away from home, and I know she will want to see me during the summer and probably become close with me again...I really don't know what to do...Any suggestions would be great for those that took the time to read all of this, haha...Thanks guys...
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from sabalien (20-somethingfemale)2 answers
Is this love, or just familiarity/ fear?
I suppose if i'm actually in...show more
love, I wouldn't have to ask this question. In any case, here goes...
..I'm turning 20 in three months, and I have been in love with one person for the last 4 and a half years of my life. We have dated on and off for about 4 years, first being friends at the mere age of 15. ..
..Today will mark 11 months of consistent dating without any breaks or surprise "take offs" (on his part.)..Our lovestory (I am young, but I can assure that IS what it is) began in the way of friends who never notice eachother connecting through surprise interests, and falling in love in the summertime, which resulted in dating during warm months and breaks during colder times. We remained friends during the times we did not date, but somehow he'd always come back to me. I thought it would always remain this way until last year aorund christmas when he said he was ready to commit. And he has been commited since then. Things have been rocky, as most relationships are (and if you love someone, it's harder, because everything they do seems to be a reaction to you, whether this is actually the case or not) but I know that I am in love with him, and he is in love with me. He talks about the future, something he never believed in before...But I'm still unsure of whether pursuing this relationship is for me. We are opposite people who used to connect really well, but because we are adults now and no longer have time for the fun-fare of teenage-hood, our lives have taken turns in ways that make it very difficult to align...He works night-shift+overtime, and sleeps during the day, while I am in university, and work on the side, so both of our time is very limited. But it isn't the lack of face-time that bothers me. It's that we cannot consistently be in good standing with eachother, and he is afraid to compromise because he doesn't want to lose who he truly is, for the likes of me. And I ditto that. He says he will die for me, but I am living for him (willingly) as of right now. ..
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0%Yes, it's worth it. You just have to wait until you both settle your lives down.
100%No, if you can't be sure about it in this stage, you'll never know.
0%You should know by now, heck, it's been 4 years! Go with your gut.
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from anonymous2 answers
Against all odds, I have fallen in love with someone who lies on the opposite...show more
side of the spectrum from me in one key regard :religion. I am a hardcore atheist, while he is a devout fundamentalist Christian. his view on religion and his worship practices inform his life on an everyday basis. Obviously, I live a very secular life. This is not a matter of he's Christian I'm Jewish, but we only go to church/synagogue once or twice a year, this is could I possibly stand saying grace before every meal, conforming to certain strictures, covering my body in ways I'm not accustomed to, weekly church services, abiding by an authoritarian worldview. This is also, could he marry and respect a person who does not believe in a God? Not to mention the social and political views we have that are in conflict. Still, despite all that, we are in love. So what to do? is it possible to overcome such a big hurdle? Or are we star crossed lovers? I guess I am hoping for some "success stories"...
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from Dystopian (20-somethingmale)4 answers
Okay, so here is my problem. I went on a date just two days ago with this guy....show more
He seems really nice, smart, and all that. I shouldn't have to think twice about giving him a shot and seeing him again, and possibly even a relationship if everything works out. But I have one problem, age...I am eighteen and he is sixteen. Its only two years, but I understand this is a sensitive point in life, and I'm having a sort of moral issue with it...Keep in mind that everything would be 100% legal in my state, so the law isn't the problem, only whether or not it is socially and morally okay...Should I pursue the relationship despite the age difference?..Vote:
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80%Go for it.
20%He's too young for you.
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from anonymous5 answers
My new boyfriend, who i've been dating for about two months, calls his mom...show more
every night to chat. They usually talk anywhere for 5-20 minutes. Is this weird? He's 25...Vote:
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from anonymous2 answers
My boyfriend and I are going to his parent's house for Thanksgiving, and...show more
spending the weekend. I've never met them before, so this will be a big occasion. I just found out that my boyfriend's mother expects me to sleep in the guest room. For crying out loud, we are nearly 30 years old and have been dating for almost a year. She can't possibly think that we are not sleeping together. And it's not like we would have loud, crazy, off-the-wall sex at his parent's house, you know? What do you think, is this too Victorian for words, or is it acceptable for her to ask this?..Vote:
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from GothTart (20-somethingfemale)4 answers
Over the weekend I went on a date with this guy, whom I'd met on line. It...show more
was the first time we met IRL, and we planned to meet at a bar. I got there first (I like to get there early and find a place to sit and have a drink, kwim?) and sat at the bar. Well, the time for us to meet comes and goes. Then about fifteen or 20 minutes later my cell rings. It's the guy. I say, "I'm at the bar," and he says, I know, I'm right behind you. I thought he was callign to say he was late but on his way, like, I'm right behind you, I'll be there soon, but NO, he was LITERALLY right behind me. So why the heck would he call me? He knew it was me, right? Was this some kind of a test? Or is he just a weirdo? We had an OK time after that, not great, I don't think I want to see him again, but I just can't figure out why he would call me phone when he was standing less than two feet from me????? Any insight??..
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from anonymous3 answers
For my boyfriend's birthday, I planned on taking him to see his favourite...show more
band for the first time at a big festival. I thought it'd be really special and fun so I told him a few months in advance to make sure he could get that day off, and he was so excited he told all his friends about it. Then, it turns out the band is also playing a month before his birthday on their own tour..so his friends ask him to ask me if it's okay if he goes. I say it's up to him, and what does he think, and he says that he feels it would kind of ruin it for his birthday since it's only a month apart and he wanted to share the first time with me. So, I thought that this was settled as I totally agreed with all that... then I find out he (after this conversation) bought tickets with his friends. I tell him this isn't cool, and I was hurt by this- more the fact that he changed his mind and did this when he said all those things about knowing it would ruin my plans. I ask him again later and he also says that he doesn't think he's going to go. Then wow...he goes. And also won't talk about how it was or what it was like after at all...
..<br>I didn't end up taking him after all that, for obvious reasons...and it's been about two months since his birthday. I thought I'd get over it but I can't even listen to the band on the radio anymore, and it really makes me not want to do anything special for him in the future. I also still seem to be very hurt by this...and I don't know why... I don't want to bring it up because we're in a good place right now so how do I get over it? Or should I even...I'm worried that this is some sort of red flag that I'm ignoring.....
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