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Cheating Questions
from anonymous5 answersMy husband is going on a business trip in January and I'm already worried...show more
about it. THe last time he went away for work, I think he had an affair with a coworker while they were there. I dont really have any hard evidence, just a "feeling". Call it a sneaking suspicion maybe. I don't suspect them of doing anything here in town even though she lives here too, my husband is always at home when he says he will be, and I just don't get that sense from him. I thnk what happened is they just had too many drinks and ended up in bed together, I don't think it's an "emotional affair". But they're going to be away again in jan and I'm a little worried that it'll be a repeat performance. I don't want to confront my husband about the last trip, b/c if it wasn't anything serious I don't want to make a big deal out of it. BUt I sure don't want it to happen again and I'm really nervous about him going, What should I do? Should I mention it or is there something I can say that will let him know that I "know" and somehow deterr him from doing it again? Any ideas?..
from franciscofran (30-somethingmale)3 answershey guys - bit of a weird one here.i met this girl through an internet dating...show more
site and we texted on off for about a month until we went out....then we met and really hit it off.there was no awkwardness and it felt natural.kissed but that was about it...then we met up again and had another great night...basically then we met up a 3rd time and she stayed over with me and we did the usual....everything seemed to be ticking along nicely. ..until the other week she said she couldnt see me that weekend as she had some personal stuff to sort out.(i think there is an ex boyfriend trying to get back with her) so i said fine but she kept texting on and off..i have given her a week and every time i suggest meeting up the trail goes cold and she wont say. Thing is i do like her and she says she likes me too...so my question is: ..Which of the following do you reckon i should do?..Vote:
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18%be patient and give her more time...play it cool
73%ask her straight out what is going on
9%forget about her and tell her i dont need this strife
from Angie (40-somethingfemale)4 answersDo you believe you could be monogamous to one person for the rest of your life?...show more
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..Not to be confused with "Could you be IN a monogamous relationship?" and since we've never come to a concensus on what cheating and monogamy is, I'll make it easy for you to answer ... le'ts say it means ... not ever sleep with anyone else again ... elaborate if you feel you need or want to...Vote:
from fallchild5 (20-somethingmale)4 answersI dated a girl very seriously for 6 months. Then she went to Europe and when...show more
she came back she had changed a little...She treated me like an akward cousin, and wouldn't open up to me...I suspected she had cheated on me, so i asked her and she said no...I then get told that she is going to be too busy this school-year to date, and i give her space of 2 months...Then i go over to her house to talk to her and pressure her into telling me what really happened...Apparently she cheated on me in europe with someone in her group, and was dating them when she got back, but she couldn't tell me...She knew what was wrong the whole time, but wouldn't tell me...I don't know why this happened, is this my fault somehow? I don't really know what to do but i'm really sad and depressed that i could be betrayed so easily...Vote:
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100%talk to my friends about this
0%leave this behind and never look back and never talk about it
from anonymous4 answersI have been emailing with this woman I met on a dating site. It's been a...show more
few weeks but we haven't yet gotten to meet. Oddly enough, I feel guilty meeting other women online at this point; it almost feels as if I am cheating. Why would this be and is it odd?..Vote:
from anonymous5 answersI had (long) been a friend with benefits to this woman who suddenly eloped an...show more
got married. (She and I were never going to be a "couple" but I was still taken off guard at the change of events.) Now, when I saw her last, she made some passes at me. I am still attracted to her but put a stop to her advances by explaining the situation is different now that she has a husband. Would you have done the same?..Vote:
from anonymous8 answersWhat is it that keeps you, personally, from cheating on your partner if you have...show more
one? Is it the fear of getting caught and the repercussions that would follow, or the social strictures against it, or your own intrinsic sense of what's right and wrong? If it were socially acceptable to be nonmonogamous, would you do it?..Vote:
