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Cheating Questions
from anonymous4 answersMy husband told me something devastating over the weekend. We were out to dinner...show more
and he just blurted out that he had fallen in love with someone else. He claims that he hasn't slept with her, but that it's an emotional affair. He also says he still loves me and doesn't want to leave. Obviously I am crushed by this, but I don't know where to go or what to think. Any advice for dealing with this? Do I stick by him hoping he'll fall "out of love" with this woman? forbid him to see her? Leave him right away? I am just so confused right now. we've been married four years for what that's worth. I thought everything was good. Please help...
from anonymous2 answersI am afraid that my boyfriend might be cheating on me. I found some texts on...show more
his phone that are a little too intimate if you know what I mean. I just don't know what to do about it. I wish there was some way I could either catch him in the act or something. I can't admit that I was snooping...or can I? I mean, how do I confront him when I am in the wrong too. Or do you think that cheating trumps snooping?..
from anonymous3 answersI can't help thinking that the only reason I don't cheat on my husband...show more
is bc I don't have much opportunity. This isn't bc I don't love him dearly - I do. He's a great guy and I wouldn't want to hurt him for the world. But I'm awfully bored in our relationship, and esp in the sex department. (I've tried "spicing things up" too by the way, and we have fun for a while and then end up going back to the same ol' same ol'.) I have to go away for a business trip next month and I have the feeling that if I have half an opportunity or occasion, I'll sleep with some random stranger after a few drinks. What do I do? I mean, how do I steel my will so I don't do this, because I really don't want to hurt my husband???..
from anonymous2 answersIf you go into it knowing that you are NOT going to sleep with some one, but...show more
just going to make out/fool around just for fun, is kissing cheating? I mean, when there's absolutely no intention of doing anything more than kissing?..
from anonymous4 answersMy husband told me over the weekend (we'd had a few drinks and got into...show more
one of "those" conversations about our relationship) that he is often tempted to cheat on me but doesn't. The way he said it was like, how brave and strong he is for resisting, and how I should admire him for his restraint. I don't know why he would tell me that, b/c now it's all I can think about - does he want to cheat with HER? is he thinking about sleeping with this woman? or that woman ? If he's late maybe he's out having an affair...what can I do to keep him at home and happy and satisfied? In other words its brought out all my insecurities. Do you think he said that just to keep me on my toes, or what? I feel like saying that was unnecessarily cruel. What do you all think? And how I deal with this? It's not as though things have chnaged - hes felt this way the whole time we've been together but now I just know about it. UGH!!!..
from anonymous6 answersI'd like some advice about my boyfriend and my's relationship. He's...show more
a really great guy and I love him to bits but we have some problems in bed...He finds it really difficult to talk to me and so I can't ever ask him what I want or know what he wants...He's also not the best lover I have ever had and I have cheated on him once although he forgave me...I would like an open relationship because we are both at different universities but I think he would hate the idea...
..He's like my best friend and I would hate to lose that but I'm so sexually frustrated and need more affection tha..I;m getting from him, what do I do?..
from jusBreathe (20-somethingfemale)4 answersI was involved with my children's father for a long time .... he cheated...show more
.... I made the decision to move out with the kids, now that the affair is over, he has been badgering me telling me that he is a changed person and he wants to get back together to salvage our relationship and be there for his children. ..
..Two years since we've "made up" I told him that I feel I have been there from day one and he needs to commit to me and get married - so I've cut off the sex period. He's iff'ing and but'ting about he has to look out for his self. Prior to him cheating we hardly had sex, I hardly initiated anything, not that I don't like sex it's just that I feel if I'm going to get down and suck a man's d!ck and go all out, I want to be savouring those moments with my husband...
..However, he doesn't want to committ to someone who doesn't give in to sex . But I try to tell him that once we are married then everything changes, I would know that we are committed to each other .... ..
..Is there a way to go around this issue?!..
from 24atlovesdoor (20-somethingfemale)4 answersOkay. Complicated. Backround: I am dating a man who is the most caring, understanding,...show more
funny, sweetest man I have ever met. He also has aspergers, which I find it may or may not be an important detail. I've never been happier with anyone, or felt more safe, beautiful, and appreciated, it is also the best sex I have had. We click on every level. ..
..HOWEVER. i discovered that he has been emailing compusivly numereous girls off the internet saying he is single, they are hot, he has no one special in his life, and thinks they should hang out asap. He even was texting one. ..
..When i confronted him he explained that it was a compulsive thing he was doing and he wanted to stop and he was glad i knew now, and he had been talking to his therapist about it, blah blah, and wants to do everything he can to make it right. He is very very sorry...
..what do i do?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!??!??!?! im so confused it hurts!..
from anonymous4 answersI just found out over the weekend that my wife, about a month after we got married,...show more
went out one night with her friends and ended up making out with another guy. I'm really bothered by this. I'm bothered that she did it, and I'm bothered that she didn't tell me about it until now (a couple of years later!). Of course it makes me wonder what else she's done and is not telling me about. What do you think? Can I trust her? Is there anything I can do to make myself feel better about this or forget it?..
from anonymous4 answersMy wife's best friend is a guy she works with. She says she's not attracted...show more
to him but they spend a lot of time together. I can't help feeling insecure about him. Isnt it weird for a married woman to have a single man as a BFF? And yes, he's straight, I've met some of his girlfriends in the past...
