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Cheating Questions
from anonymous2 answersim so comfused its almost driving me up a wall. ive been helping my friends wit...show more
relationship issuies if you will but ive found ive started developing feelings for my friends girl. its hard on me and yet i still find myself trying to keep them together regardless of my feelings. am i wrong to not try anything? or am i being the good friend trying to keep them together its racking my brain. i mean they have a child together i may just be selling myself short and need to just i dont know any advice would help...
from anonymous1 answerhow does one stay faithful mentally?
Recently married, and sometimes i find...show more
it hard not to find other guys attractive, or want the to like me or want me... but knowing you cant ever be even a tad bit too freindly or flirty with them is hard. does any one have some kind of soultion or an easy way to deal with this isssue? why do i feel i still want attention when i already get alot from my husband? whats wrong with me?..
from dysperfect (20-somethingfemale)3 answersI've been in an incestuous relationship with my brother for three years...show more
now. He's getting married soon to his girlfriend now that he's sixteen and he legally can, but he says that we can still have sex. Is this a sin or not?..
from cheeks (20-somethingfemale)2 answersWould you tell your boyfriend (who you're crazy about) that you have the...show more
hots for a guy in your swing class? Totally harmless, juvenile, grade-school crush? You know the sort of thing that you tell your friends.....Is this included in the whole "I'm always honest with you" trust thing? ..
..Thoughts?..
from anonymous4 answers2 days ago, I told my boyfriend of 5-and-a-half months that while I was drunk...show more
and away overseas, I kissed someone else...The morning after it happened was a fuzzy but very guilty memory but, I decided not to tell my boyfriend because I knew he would be really upset and break up with me. This he did do when I became overwhelmed with guilt and told him what happened, but ever since he is constantly calling me at all hours to cry at me/hurl abuse. I told him I was really sorry, it was a drunken mistake, and that I was really ashamed of my actions, he forgave me but told me he could no longer be with me...I told him I was sad, but prepared to accept the consequences of my actions and us go our separate ways, but if he wanted to I was willing to change and start over with our relationship. I can tell he wants to stay with me but feels he can't trust me anymore, but when I ask him what he wants to do - stay together or split for good - he can't decide and begins crying again. He's obviously not in the correct mindset to make the decision that he wants (I am prepared for either, as much as I want to stay with him, if he can't do it, I can't force him and I deserve to be alone)...We really love each other and it so hurts; the worst thing is that I know it's all my fault, I really am taking the ultimate punishment by having the man I love sob his heart out down the phone to me and knowing that I caused it. He's so beside himself he's barely eaten or slept and judging by his phonecalls he is getting increasingly hysterical. He has depression and it's really not good for him...
..My question is...I am going to visit him tomorrow by his request, it's about an hour's drive (which I can't really afford but I don't care about that at the minute). I am prepared for him to look at me, say he can't bear to see me anymore and then I drive all the way back again, as he says he doesn't know how he's going to react. I guess I'm wondering what we should do, is it a good idea for me to go and see him? Is he going to be thinking straight enough to make the decision that he wants? I am not proud of what I did and have accepted I was completely in the wrong; so any comments which help the situation as it stands now would be greatly appreciated. Thank you...
from lonelywhisper (20-somethingfemale)2 answersI am going out of town this weekend. My boyfriend told me he was planning on...show more
going out with a friend of ours but I found out he doesn't have plans with her and actually has plans with an ex girlfriend. I wouldn't have cared if he had told me about those plans, but he lied about it and now i don't know what to do. do i confront him about it? and if so, how do i bring it up so he doesn't get defensive?..
..PLEASE HELP!...
from Rachez18 (20-somethingfemale)4 answersSo it has taken a long time for me to get over my most recent ex. He started...show more
seeing someone else before he stopped seeing me. You would think it would be easy to just hate him, but he always finds a way to get under my skin. He lives about 1 min up the road from me so sometimes I am forced to cross paths with him and he is my friend on other social networking sites, is it childish to delete him? And how do I get this jerk out from under my skin!?..
from NickOTime (20-somethingmale)4 answersThe woman i'm dating and i have a very loosely defined relationship. we...show more
are not monogamous, but we just get together and have a good time. it's more than just FWB, though, because we do actually "date" and have fun, not just have sex. still, i had asked her out this weekend and she said she already had plans. i pushed her a little bit, just joking, saying "oh, you got a hot date" or something and there was this silence...then she started to explain. i told her it was ok, not to worry, and it is. BUT. i couldn't help feeling a little...i dunno if it was jealousy, or just fear that she will find someone she likes better, or what. i don't want to make a committment to her, i enjoy playing the field too and not being tied down, and i know i can't have a double standard about, so i have to be cool. but it got me thinking, is it possible to be involved with someone, emotionally and physically, and still maintain that openness? or do you think that as soon as you become intimate with someone you automatically are "committed" even if you don't want to be? when do you cross the line? Is there any way to get to know someone, date them, enjoy their company, and yet not feel possessive? is it a matter of self-esteem or are we hardwired to feel this way? what do you all think?..
from anonymous3 answersWhat would you do if your friend told you that they were thinking of having an...show more
affair? Over the holidays I got together w/ a good friend of mine for drinks, and she said that she's met someone and really attracted to him, and she's having a hard time resisting cheating on her husband. I could tell it was a relief for her to confide in me, and she even said as much and asked me if I would think less of her if she did have the affair. I'm torn - I want to be there to support her, and if she needs to talk about this I want to be available, but I think the affair is a bad idea and I don't approve. I don't know how to be a supportive friend without condoning her actions. What would you (or have you) done in this situation?..
