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Big Crush Questions
from anonymous4 answersThere's a guy who works at the checkout counter of my local natural-foods...show more
store, and every time I go there we flirt and chat. I have actually taken to going a few times a week to pick up just one or two things, rather than doing all my shopping at once, so that I can see him. How do I see if he's a) involved w/someone else, or b) interested in me? How do I make that next move from flirting as I buy my groceries? I mean, for all I know he could flirt like that with everyone...
from beemis (20-somethingmale)5 answersSince high school, I've had a HUGE crush on this girl. I'm a sophomore...show more
in college, but whenever i talk to the girl, it's still monumental. However, the history behind it is- is that it was a mutual crush since 10th grade, but it wasn't until senior year that we were both single at the same time. We made out, and fondled a lot, but nothing past that. So i know she's attracted to me, but i just don't know HOW attracted. We're talking a lot again, and she's coming home in a month for Winter break, ( mind you, she goes to college in NC, and I'm in NY) and i really want to see her...
..Here's the ringer- I have a girlfriend...Things are kind of on the rocks though, and she's making things all about her and how "I need to try harder" and she just sits there. Always about her, and i'm getting sick of it. ..
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..I've been with her for almost a year, so i don't know what to do. Get rid of my girlfriend and take my chances with the other girl? Or just completely ignore my crush, and stay true to my girlfriend?..bleh...
from anonymous5 answersHere it goes.
So basically a couple monthes ago I saw this really cute girl...show more
in a resteraunt, my co workers and i were a couple beers deep, and I was feeling rather brave... so i made her a paper rose with my name and number on it. she didnt notice it at first, but then my co worker went and talked to her and stuff. i freaked and went outside for a smoke. she then came out to talk to me and we had a good laugh... ..
..I went back in and ended up sitting with her and her friends and had a blast... her friend gave me her number, but she also told me she had just recently started dating someone. so we've just been texting back and forth, and she refused to give me her facebook. ..
..so we continued texting, and its been and few monthes and shes still dating that guy, but we still text and flirt. so i figured i'd call her and see if she wanted to do lunch... at least i can be friends with her right? anyway I start as i always do, with a pleasant " Hello, Is this a bad time?" but she was like what? and hung up...
..whats going on? im rather confused.....
..ps in case you were wondering, my co workers from the Eng firm I was at are twice my age...and thus much more mature... and me... well i freak out and run.....
from MIssa (20-somethingfemale)3 answersSo i recently started liking this guy. In the beginning of the school year i...show more
was seeing him quite often around campus or on the busses, and i started becoming really attracted to him...We have a lot in common, and he's a lot of fun...A lot of the time when i see him he is so friendly and so outgoing, the thing that is just his personality, so friendly with everyone... Im always laughing when im with him, i love it. It's a little later in the year now but i unfortunately don't get to see him as often as I'd like...However, we're not really "friends"..i guess we are more friendly aquaintences maybe, who is just now developing a friendship;..but im also afraid to get into that friendship zone with him...So i guess the question i have is how can i ask him to hang out subtly so i don't freak him out; just like a scheduled hangout might be fun!..Since usually when i do see him it's not usually planned, and we don't get to talk as long as I would like...
from Noirloup (teenfemale)3 answersI asked this guy to sadies (a girl asks guy dance). Before i asked him we used...show more
to see each other a lot more than we do now so i talked to him a lot more. But lately i've only seen him in english class. i really want to talk to him but there's this other girl who talks to him the whole time so i never get a chance. She says that she's not interested in him and i believe her, i just want more opportunities to talk to him. what should i do?..
from anonymous3 answersi'm a 17y.o. who has a big crush on this one guy, he's part of my crowd...show more
but i really never get him alone. we always hang out with lots of other people around, so it's hard to interact w/him one on one to see if he likes me. any ideas for how I can get him alone w/o coming right out and asking him for a date?..
from anonymous5 answersok, so im 15 years old and i've never had a bf or my first kiss for that...show more
matter! i really want a bf but there's no way im ever gonna have the guts to ask a guy out and they won't ask me out. im friends with a lot of guys and im pretty and all....and nice guys smile and talk to me but why won't they ask me out??! im starting to seem desperate for any guy. i feel like im getting too old for the ridiculous 'first love' stuff. please help!..
from Noirloup (teenfemale)6 answersOkay, I'm a junior who is confused. One of my good guy friends has asked...show more
me to hang out with him two times. One time we went fishing and the other time we went to a murder mystery dinner. He is also a junior but he has a "girlfriend" she is a senior. Its the beginning of the year and over the summer he and his "girlfriend" broke up. Now i think they are back together but i'm not sure. I think that he may be interested in me but he's really distracted by his "girlfriend". Next year when she graduates do you think he will become interested in me again? I kind of like him but i don't want to be his girlfriend...Vote:
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60%yes he will become interested in you next year.
from anonymous2 answersI've liked his guy for a while now. We've been friends, and always...show more
spent a lot of time together, but only in our group of friends...Lately though, we started talking all the time online, and we've been hanging out alone together...I really can't tell if he thinks this is going anywhere, and I don't want to jepardize our friendship, what the heck should I do? (BTW I'm in college and I've never had anything close to a boyfriend before)..
from anonymous3 answersI've liked his guy for a while now. We've been friends, and always...show more
spent a lot of time together, but only in our group of friends...Lately though, we started talking all the time online, and we've been hanging out alone together...I really can't tell if he thinks this is going anywhere, and I don't want to jepardize our friendship, what the heck should I do? (BTW I'm in college and I've never had anything close to a boyfriend before)..
