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Big Crush Questions
from anonymous4 answersOK, so I asked out this girl that I have a crush on, and I don't know what...show more
to do now. I asked her to go to dinner with me this weekend, and she said, "Oh, no, I can't." And I quote. I mean, no excuse, no "maybe some other time," no nothing, that was literally all she said. She smiled, she was friendly about it, but she really gave me no clue whether she was rejecting my advances or whether she just wasn't available that night and I should follow up with another invite for some other time. So what do you think? What should I do, should I ask her out again? or just let it go?..Vote:
from anonymous2 answersA couple of monthss ago one of my (male) friends told me that he has had a crush...show more
on me for a year. I was flattered but not interested - I have my eye on someone else, and I just think of htis guy as a brother, know what I mean? so I let him down as gently as I could, and I've made every effort to maintatin the friendship since then - I go out of my way to contact him every few days, just send him a text to say hi or whatever, but now whenever we see each other it's really, really awkward. Neither of us wants it to be but it seems like it just is, anyway. Is there anything I can do to make the awkwardness go away and get back to being friends? Or is it just a matter of time?..
from anonymous3 answersThere's a girl I really like from one of my classes, but she's been...show more
giving me major mixed signals. Over the course of 2 months, I've had no idea how she feels about me...
..- During our first few weeks knowing each other, we always sat next to each other in class..- Around a month ago, she started sitting elsewhere..- We went to a baseball game together, where she was constantly holding my hand / arm..- However, she told me she has a boyfriend on the way there (also mentioned she was thinking of breaking up with him though)..- She always smiles when we're together (as do I) & we always hold eye contact for longer than what is considered normal..- I always text/call first..- Whenever we do debates in our class she says she's for whatever side I am, but once she's in the group she says she doesn't really agree..- She came to class one day with her hair down & I told her she looks amazing. Since then, she's been coming to class every time with her hair down, but I've seen her around campus on other days with it tied back as usual..- She keeps coming up with reasons she can't do anything with me outside of school - not even a cup of coffee. The only time we've ever done anything together outside of school (in roughly 2 months) was go to the baseball game..- She used to call me "buddy" all the time. She's stopped since around the same time as the baseball game..- She never calls me by my name either though. It's always "hey" and "bye". No nickname, no "buddy", just "hey" and "bye"..- She's still with her boyfriend..- The only times she texts me first is to say she's bored before our class together & that we should grab some food or coffee..- She doesn't want to introduce me to her friends..- Says she loves my taste in music..- When I dropped her off after the game, we had a very silent, lingering goodbye (not the awkward kind... the happy, smiling, giggling, hand on the shoulder kind). After she left my car, she came back and said "drive safe", and then left again. I kinda get the feeling I missed my chance for a kiss..- She asked me to give her a piggy back ride..- Perfectly comfortable with me running my fingers through her hair..
..So, what do you guys think?..Vote:
from Ra1nbowDrops (teenfemale)3 answersWhat should I do..?
Plz read x3
Since the semester started, I was caught by...show more
this awesome guy- let's call him Edward- and as the time passed we were doing better :D and then, suddenly he stopped talking to me, which freaked me out.. I used to chat with him alot and we "annoyed" each other in a fun way but not anymore....Like 2 days later, his best friend -let's call him Bryan- started chatting a lot with me and 2 weeks later, he asked me for being his girlfriend. I kind of liked him (just a bit ) and I wanted a boyfriend so i said yes...Then I discovered that Edward was in love with me (and still) but he stopped talking to me because Bryan told him he wanted me (before edward said he saw me first or sumtin like that D: ) so,,, he kind of sacrificed himself for his friend.... T__T but he has been talking to me again and we hang out and there's still some little flame alive.....So.. i've been with bryan a while, a short time. But I just can't love him.. I liked him but I discovered he's not my type, he's attractive and nice and shalalala but I don't like him anymore but I like feeling loved.. and..I've kind of fallen for edward once again and it's sad...i'm such a jerk D: Because i know he is his best friend.... and I wouldn't try to be rightaway with him.. but..don't know what to do.....
..I just wanted to say it ;___; plz tell me sumtin...
from anonymous4 answersThere's this girl I want to ask out - she works with me, in a medium sized...show more
office, so we're acquaintances but not friends - but she's really unique and I'd love to come up with a fun way to ask her out instead of just saying, hey, want to go out with me? so do you have any good suggestions? or fun ways you've heard of people being asked on dates?..
from vanleeuwen (20-somethingfemale)6 answersI have recently joined an internet dating site, aiming to meet some new people...show more
and see where it goes from there. While there have been a lot of clicks on the "ignore" button, I have found some nice guys to chat to. Among them was one that took my breath away. He seems to be everything I want - he's attractive, he's a total gamer/sci-fi geek like I am, we have long conversations on MSN every single day without fail until 2 or 3am and on the phone occasionally and he just makes me feel so happy to be me. However, he lives in a different state (about 1200 km away) and it pains me that we haven't met in real life yet...I'm planning to fly there early next year just for a week or so to hang out. He's keen on the idea and we have been discussion options on what to do once I get there. However, I've been wondering whether it's a good idea to do so...either I go and we click and I will be heartbroken having to come back to my state and not see him for a long time or we don't get along as well in real life as online/on phone (which isn't that likely). Should I take the risk?..
from Noirloup (teenfemale)4 answersAlright, so this is another question regarding the guy i'm asked to sadies....show more
He did say yes, but i think he thinks that i want to be his girlfriend and i don't. I just want friendship from him. He's a really cool guy and all. I just don't want a boyfriend in highschool. I was thinking about writing him a note explaining all this to him but, it could be better if I did in person. I still only get to see him in english class though and that would be an awkward conversation to have in class. What should I do??..
from Impossible22 (20-somethingfemale)4 answersSo I met this guy thru my sister. The first time I met him was with a group of...show more
people, but he really turned me off. Since he had already known my sister he knew things about me. Like a I'm a vegetarian, I'm going to vote for Obama, and have a Peta credit card. So he wanted to debate me about these issues. And normally I'm up for those discussions, but I just met this guy and these are things he would not have known about me. So anyway a few weeks later the same group went out again. This time he was really nice, and didn't bring those things up. So we got really trashed and made out. And we would have done it, but he didn't have a condom. So the next moring we kissed and he had his arm around me in bed. However when I left he didn't hug me or anything or ask for my phone number. So my question is do you think there can be a relationship after that night? Thats what I'm looking for. And if you think there could be a relationship, how do I go about bringing that up?..
