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Big Crush > from anonymous5 answers
ok, so im 15 years old and i've never had a bf or my first kiss for that...
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from ScarlettO (40-somethingfemale)
Try to cultivate a Zen-like satisfaction with your own life, no matter how painfully single it feels. Don't care about boys, but focus on yourself and your friends and your hobbies and school. The more desperate you are, the more it shows, and the further away the guys will stay. As soon as you can stop wanting a boyfriend so badly, you'll get one. Act as if -- as if you're happy as a lark being single, as if you barely notice that the handsome person talking to you is male. And whatever you do, do..not give in to the temptation to settle for "any guy." Hold out for a good one -- they are out there...
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from Brooke (20-somethingfemale)
Hey chick, I felt exactly the same way when I was 15!..It seemed everyone else was pairing up, even my twin sis, and I was the only single one. But I am now 18 and have still never had a BF or been kissed, and I am so happy about this. Think of it this way, how many people find their true love in high school? I got to skip the dramas of imature romance and the petty on again offf again high school fling...My friends that are paired up are going through hell at the moment becuse they are going off to Uni next year and dont know what to do about their high school romance, most want to brake up but feel they owe it to the other to try long distance, while others are heart broken at the idea of it being the end. If you wait for the write guy to come along, your first kiss will mean so much more. When I look back at being 15 I cant imagine a kiss meaning as much to me as it does now. Dont panic you are only 15,..you have A LOT more kissing years ahead...
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from cobo (30-somethingfemale)
I know how you feel! I was the dreaded sweet 16 and never been kissed. But that all changed when I did get kissed that year. The way I see it, you have a few options: you can decide to just kiss any old jerk, like go get drunk at a party and do something you may end up regretting (I don't recommend this!), or you can make more of an effort to meet some fellas by putting yourself out there more (I eventually met my first bf through mutual friends at another town's summer fair), or you can just be patient and know that if you really are pretty and attract guys' attention, they will come for you eventually. It's all a matter of how soon you want that kiss and how involved you want to be in the process...
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
Relax, you are not too old. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17...
You are still young. And, maybe you live in a small town and have always been friends with these guys? For me, I had a lot more dating success once I got to college. It may be the same for you...
Desperation is never attractive. So just relax, have fun, and you'll meet a boy...
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from metroedged (20-somethingmale)
Just ask a guy if he would like to do something with you.....
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