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See, there is this boy...i've known him (not friends with him, but we have gone to school with each other and such) for about 4 years. i hadn't really liked him because he was quite rude to me a while back, but recently i've noticed he is a bit different. i was volunteered to be a part of a play that he had written, he didn't seem to like me, but accepted me anyway. after a while he started being a lot different with me, almost like he wanted to be my friend. i was sort of shocked. -go figure, he also looks a lot better than he did before. ..
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one of my best friends is currently in a (different) play with him. she was cast as the lead, and he was her "servant" they are spending a lot of time together, and it's driving me crazy. she has told me that she likes him, but i haven't told her that i like him too. and to top that all off, he is going to be leaving for college soon, so if anything is going to happen between them, it will be in the very close future. ..
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so basically, the question is:..
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we like the same guy, it seems like he may like my friend, but then again it seems like he might like me aswell. time is limited, but i am afraid. he is older than me, and he does have a track record...and i'm feeling a bit less than desirable. i feel like i'm extra chubby, awkward, and rude near him. >.<..
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from anonymous
I guess it's down to how important your friendship is with this woman who's interested in the same guy as you. It seems to me that you've been friends with her for a long while. In that case, why would you possibly alienate one of your best friends on account of a guy who might not be worth it, from what you say.....
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
It is always tough and tricky when you like a guy, but your bff calls dibs on him. Truthfully, if he's going to college soon -- probably no major long term romance is going to develop whether she wants him to or not. ..
When I was your age, I was really into theater. And in plays, people spend a lot of time together and they get really close and really flirty. My brothers asked me if all the guys in the plays were gay. I protested. I said they were all straight...
Years later, it turns out I was wrong. My brothers were right...
Not to say that there aren't a few straight guys who love theater. . ...
But my point is, that he's probably not your friends, or even your happy ever after. You should never ever fight a friend over a guy. Ever. Because in 10 years, you may actually still be friends with this girl. But in 10 years, you probably won't even bother to look up this guy on facebook. If you like theater, keep doing it. Maybe it will build your confidence...
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