from ScarlettO
(30-somethingfemale)
While I think the 'net is a fine venue for flirting, in my opinion you should save the actual asking-out for a personal encounter. Let me tell you why. First, if you message him on MySpace, and he doesn't answer right away, you will work yourself into a frenzy waiting and wondering. It may just be that he hasn't logged in for a while, and here's you: maniacally, compulsively hitting the refresh button while the rest of your life is on hold. ..
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Second, if you ask him in person you'll be able to gauge his reaction, replete with body language, facial expressions, and pheromone level, right away. Let's pretend his answer is, "Oh, I can't go out on Saturday, I have plans." If you read that on your monitor, you won't know what to make of it. But if he says it -- with real regret in his voice, brows furrowed and frowning -- you'll have a better idea of how things stand. So, I advise you to flirt him up on Myspace, but ask him out the old-school way. Good luck!..
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