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I recently started getting involved with this guy that i really like. he is amazing, i mean it. the only thing is that he has had quite a few flings before me. i haven't even kissed him because i am so nervous! i have only had one real boyfriend before, and i feel that i might not meet his standards. i know i shouldn't feel like that...but i do. he's "experienced" and i don't feel as if i fit the bill. i'm worried that if i tell him he'll think i'm crazy, and that if i don't, he will feel like i'm not interested in him and break up with me. i always hear that "each person you kiss is a new experience." yeah, but what if i am just plain old awful?! ahhhh!..
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from anonymous
Just tell him your fears, if he really truly likes you he'll understand and won't freak out...
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Thats what relationships are all about, getting stuff out in the open...
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There's a first for everything...
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from anonymous
i like the idea of telling him -- it may be fun for him to teach you.....
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from rockrat (20-somethingmale)
I think you should tell him! if you're not a good kisser, that will explain that fact to him, and he'll enjoy helping you learn. and if you are a good kisser, he'll be very impressed.....
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from ides (20-somethingfemale)
the sooner you get this experience behind you the better. kiss him, even awfully!..
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from Carlos (40-somethingmale)
This may come as a big shock to some people but most guys like women who have less experience than they do. Having said that kissing seems like a really safe and easy place to start. Follow his lead, reciprocate. Bet he's more worried than you are about pleasing you...
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And just FYI, just because someone has been kissing for a while doesn't mena they know what they're doing...
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