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Help! my Dad just got remarried and I have a new stepbrother. He's a great guy -- too great. I think i am falling in love with him! We're not related, but somehow it seems inappropriate...right? Or would it be kosher to pursue a relationship? For the record we are both in our 20s and independent (neither of us live in the house with our parents), and we didn't grow up together or anything -- we only met ~1 year ago when my dad and his mom started dating. He seems to be awfully flirty with me too, so I think he'd be receptive. But would it be too weird? Any opinions? Any one been in a similar situation?..
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from im4jesus (40-somethingfemale)
I see nothing wrong with it...Pursue the relationship if that is what you want...
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from shakira21 (20-somethingfemale)
I don't think there is anything wrong with you fancying your step brother. As you explained you are an adult and you are not related to this boy by blood. Your Dad and your step mother might have something to say about it though. Why not check out how your step brother feels? If there is something more to be pursued, then talk to your respective parents? You're not breaking an laws....
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from hugnkiss (30-somethingfemale)
If you dated and it didn't work out then, yes, it would definitely be weird at family functions. I know a couple that date, and then his grandpa ended up marrying her mom. And the couple stayed friends, so it worked out. And I know of another mom and dad that actually met when their kids were dating. (Later, the dad's wife died, and he started dating the girl's single mom.) The kids broke up, but their parents are happily married. So, it can and does happen. But since it's such a weird, almost flowers-in-the-attic situation, I'd look around for other guys first and make sure he's the one that you really want...
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from lookuponmyworks (teenmale)
Go get him! But it could be awkward if you have to see him a lot if it doesn't work out. Also, your relatives may frown on the idea. Test the waters a little first...
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from Raven (20-somethingmale)
Seems too problematic...Plus, honestly, it does sound a little strange...
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