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Dating > from anonymous
I've recently started dating a guy who's great, and we get along really well. However, I know that he's going through a tough time getting over his ex-gf. I also get the feeling that he's using me somewhat to make her jealous. She's an acquaintance of mine, and it seems like whenever we go out, we run into her, and he takes that opportunity to kiss me, be very affectionate, etc. He's not as affectionate when we are alone. I understand that motive, and I do think that he likes me for me, but I also happen to be a convenient tool for him to use to try to make her jealous. What should I do?..
Vote:
6%Wait it out, he'll get over her and turn his attention to you
24%Deal with it, if you think he's worth it
7%Dump him, he's only using you
58%Dump him, he's clearly not over her
5%other
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everyone .24% .58% .
female . . .65% .
male .36% .47% .
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